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I agree with you. I benefit a bit from looking younger than I am - people tend to figure me for late 20s or so. I benefit also from genetics (I have all of my hair, and more), my macho good looks (of course), as well as never drinking or smoking in my life (though I enjoy a good cigar maybe 12-15x a year these days). I was never a big boozer, partier, etc, and that does make a difference in looks to an extent.

Also when it comes to women, in the age group that I like and even more so with older ones, a lot of the seduction game has to do with having a very good rap and distuinguishing yourself from other males out there. I do both easily, so having a lady companion has never been a problem for me in my adult life.

I date a woman in her early 30s who is very goodlooking: she is a musician and shuttles a lot between LA and NYC. We speak daily and see each other for a long weekend every 3 to 4 weeks. That suits me just fine. I agree that I naturally feel more comfortable with her (a 5 year spread in ages) than I would with a girl who was 23 or 24. But its negligible - if a woman is mature and has her act together, it tends to not matter to me very much that I'm older.

I don't date women close to my age nor older, sorry. ;-)

I agree with you. I benefit a bit from looking younger than I am - people tend to figure me for late 20s or so. I benefit also from genetics (I have all of my hair, and more), my macho good looks (of course), as well as never drinking or smoking in my life (though I enjoy a good cigar maybe 12-15x a year these days). I was never a big boozer, partier, etc, and that does make a difference in looks to an extent.

Do you really think it's your looks? Come on now!

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I agree with you. I benefit a bit from looking younger than I am - people tend to figure me for late 20s or so. I benefit also from genetics (I have all of my hair, and more), my macho good looks (of course), as well as never drinking or smoking in my life (though I enjoy a good cigar maybe 12-15x a year these days). I was never a big boozer, partier, etc, and that does make a difference in looks to an extent.

I've long since known that looks have nothing to do with attracting women. I'm as far from good looking as a man can possibly be. I'm short (5'1"), I'm dark, I'm bald (shave the rest), I'm tattooed, both of my ears are pierced, I'm scarred, and built like a tank. I've still never lacked for a date. I have good money that says you could lose your hair, your physique, and your youth, and still be attractive to women.

I date a woman in her early 30s who is very goodlooking: she is a musician and shuttles a lot between LA and NYC. We speak daily and see each other for a long weekend every 3 to 4 weeks. That suits me just fine.

That's part of the reason you're more comfortable with younger women. Your ideal relationship with a woman is more playtime than it is familial. Huge chasm between semi-committed and married with kids. You have to have lived in both places to fully understand it.

I don't date women close to my age nor older, sorry. ;-)

Don't apologize to me, I really don't care. The love of my life happened to be almost 4 years older than I am. I can't imagine being with anyone else.