These key players by definition are not feminists then. What is at fault here is your broad stroke "tar-everyone-with-the-same-brush" definitions.
No, I'm calling the people who actually MATTER on exactly what they are DOING. Agencies claiming to be feminists agencies, taking federal cash to do what they do. Looking at anything else would be at best obtuse. The people & agencies called feminists, the ones having a measurable impact on society. That is the feminist movement, if you don't like that then go pick up a picket sign and protest them at their gatherings. But don't go ignoring that they exist because that is it, that is feminism, right there, unshaved armpits and all.