*Everyone* suspects the father. As a divorced dad, I'm sick of it. I must have been a wife-beater. When I have custody of my kids I must be molesting them. I have to be a "dead-beat dad". I must be on the verge of going ballistic and killing someone. Blah, blah, blah. Bad, bad man.
Cripes, why don't you join the National Organization of Women, or something? They feel exactly the same way.
You need to get over yourself junior.
Keep your chin up and do the best you can. In time your kids may very well see thru this charade.
It took me a while to see thru the character assasination and all the bs I got fed as a kid about Dad but now I'm very close with my dad again. Not so much with those who tried to pi$$ in the water and keep us apart.