I know what you mean. I go back and forth between "WHAT WERE YOU THINKING??" to "OMG I would just die if that were my child/husband"
The whole thing is a tragedy no matter how you look at it.
I have no sympathy for these well-to-do schmucks who thought they could get away with murder because they're rich and famous people on the island of Aruba. My sympathy goes toward Natalee and her parents and friends.
It is a very sad tragedy for all involved. I believe many have forgotten, "discipline perceived is discipline achieved."
This scenario would be very difficult for any parent to remain sane. NSNR