Look I very rarely get involved in these threads... just because of all the high emotions.
It drives me INSANE when people pile on the victim. BUT in the case of RIP I read back over all his/her posts.. up until post 1529 from what I could tell he/she was all about finding Natalee... and in total agreement with the majority of the thread. The one post that was really only questioning a situation there was MAJOR outcry... and it escalated from there.
Well, as far as I can see, we've managed to avoid that so far; I hope it can stay that way!