FYI a "bad" judgement call hardly entitles one to be raped...and it is the very attitude that you, and thankfully only a handful of others on this thread, have displayed that helps make it difficult for some women to come forward.
So a girl puts herself in a difficult spot, possibly too much to drink, possibly started down a path that she wants to back track from, regardless rape should not be an acceptable consequence...
Seems to me you need as many prayers as she does...prayers for the ability to be compassionate and a lot less jaded....
Glad I'm not your wife/daughter....I'd be afraid to tell you anything...
Telling me about it when it happened is one thing, making an excuse for it three months later when it is obvious is another.A man brings his dirty laundry to an open public forum for viewing, asking for prayers ,and no one is supposed to ask how the stains got there?