The thing is, if you do something stupid, sometimes you get hurt or even killed while doing it. It was just plain stupid to get into a car with three strange men. Yes, they did the killing--but she made it easier by getting into the car.
At any rate perhaps you did not notice the post I was responding to which wholly blamed her - no mention of the actual killer(s). The lack of compassion for a girl who apparently "had it all" from some here is mind-boggling. Maybe the "had it all" is the basis for it.