God meets people as a holy God.
and commands us to be likewise.
But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation; because it is written, Be ye holy, for I am holy.(1Pe.1:15-16)
That young lady may think she is a Christian, but if she is not being chastened by the Lord, she isn't (Heb.12:6-8).
If she is being chastened, then she better heed, for God's patience will run out and there is a sin unto death (1Jn.5:16).
Amen