You didn't answer my question
Yes I did. Because I am a Christian and love the Lord Jesus Christ and received Him as my savior, I must be among the elect.
Just as you are for the same reason. You are a believer, so you must be elect.
People like to attack the doctrines of sovereign grace by saying what if somebody wants to come but they can't. Well, that's not possible because we are dead in sin and hate God in our natural state. Only the Holy Spirit can turn us toward him, and he graciously does so for his elect. Not that we deserve it; we certainly don't.