And while you're at it, why would an all-knowing, all-powerful God satisfy himself only with creatures who love Him solely because of their preprogramming, like some kind of bizarre Perl script that repeats "I Love You" in an infinite loop?
IMHO the best arguments against Calvinism were put forth by St. Francis de Sales. He understood these folks. And was able to reach them. Not for nothing was he bishop of Geneva!
What a small mind you have if that is how you view God's sovereign grace.
I love Him because he first loved me, and I am grateful. I don't love him because I am "programmed" to do so.
Widen your mind.