[pollyannaish]

And this explains how my husband got hemolytic anemia in his 20s and was just recently diagnosed wiht lupus over 20 years later....how?

[olde north church]

I made a statement, I'm not the cause.

[slowhandluke]

my husband got hemolytic anemia in his 20s and was just recently diagnosed wiht lupus over 20 years later.

I don't know anything about hemolytic anemia, but for the lupus you should read my other posts on this thread starting with 13 and 21. There is an underlying infection for lupus, and there is a way to kill the bugs. The bugs were just very hard to find, and are hard to kill, but it looks like it can be done.