Actually, both are adultery, based on what I've read on thsi site over the past several years.
I'm just pointing out that Terri wasn't "perfect" and "without sin" as so many people have claimed.
I know the truth can be a painful thing, but you'll just have to adjust.
You sound like a member of some extreme cult or a paranoid. Among normal people, having lunch with someone is not adultery, only in someone's sick mind.
In any case, Terri never did anything horrible enough to justify being dehydrated and starved to death.
The best of luck to ya, at adjusting to the truth.