Aruba is hardly a third world armpit. Stop being an ignoramus.
I second this and I have been there as well as the St Maarten (another island in the Dutch antilles) - gorgeous. The real problem is leaving ANY bar in the wee hours of the morning with an unknown male. Leaving with MORE than one man - second issue. For a pre-med student, she had a major lapse in judgement. I'm not blaming the victim, young smart women fall prey to charmers everyday. My heart breaks for her mother. Prayers everyone - that's what's needed here right now.