I think the opposite of what she is preaching is what is needed. We need to strengthen the family unit, make it more affordable. There is far too much stress on young couples trying to start a life these days.
My wife and I dated for five years before we ever had any serious talks about getting married. Kids? They came after we had stable jobs, bought the house, the cars and had a decent bank account.
We never understood the rush to get married or become parents that we saw in so many of our friends. When we got married all our friends were positive she was pregnant because we announced it in October and got married in December. I'll bet lots of folks were upset that we didn't have any children for five more years. LOL