I think that you do not really believe what you are saying.
I believe that home schooling is abuse. Unless you are afraid of your parenting abilities then shouldn't you be able to let you children be with others that are different. I am not afraid to let my child see someone who is doing something wrong in school. I can discuss the consequences with them. I teach the values and, for the most part the facts of sciences and writing. I send my son to school to test these.