That is the love which will sustain you...how truly blessed you have been, that a man would endure this rather than let you go...how blessed Norman was (is!) that his family should love him so deeply, they let him go home to the Lord.
Where did I put those kleenex???
Please do not let pride get in the way of finding assistance. Let your FReeping family know how we can help, I know many of us would like to and are able to, even if it is just a bit. Don't hesitate to ask!
My prayers are with you in this difficult time. God bless, Georgia
I'll ditto what grellis said above.