[speekinout]

How stupid can some people be to want all or nothing?? It makes no sense.

That's the thing that mystifies me, too. I'd rather start with 80% of what I want and try for the next 20% than go to 0% - and do what??

[plain talk]

How stupid can some people be to want all or nothing?? It makes no sense

Exactly. Its an emotional shallow statement by someone who hasn't given any of this much serious thought or is hampered by stupidity or both.