Good analysis. That's what I thought. Those who abstain demonstrate self-control and are thinking in the long-term.
I'm a dude, just turned 20, and am still a virgin, not ashamed to say. It's been hard (no pun intended) but will probably be worth it in the long run.
But to each their own. =P
Coming from an old married woman, who waited for her husband, and he waited to.
There is also the issue of: No comparison. This makes life so much less complicated.