Actually having babies makes them BIGGER, which the guys like. Don't worry about it. In a good loving relationship if you both can stay on < side of obease, when you are older it won't matter that you don't look the same as you did 30 years ago. Just remember HE doesn't look the same either. Just get him a viagra now and then for the hell of it, just to spice it up once in a while, and beleive me you are going to look like a sex kitten to him, Major *LOL*
Yeah but what about the stretchmarks? I worked in a shopping mall for years before excaping that hell. It was a real lesson in social psychology. I'd see a lot of men walking with their wives who are either pregnany or just had a baby, and they're LOOKING at other women.