Posted on 05/19/2005 11:05:47 AM PDT by .cnI redruM
Actually, that is no longer true.
Porn stars are now on the NYT bestseller list.
They have their own entertainment businesses.
If it were socially unacceptable, they wouldn't dare use their real names.
Hell, one even ran for Governor of California.
yawn. You need a better comeback
I am also mystified by why men don't seem to mind at ALL that the breast they are oogling are "fake." Even my French husband says, "zat look good to me" when seeing like Pam Anderson on TV or something. I swear I have never met a man who is repulsed by this, and I agree with you, I don't get it, they are fake!!!! LOL
Another thing that bothers me with this porn thing is that it's all fake and a fantasy. Women's breasts will never look like that in real life. What about after a few babies? What then? I don't wanna know what mine will look like in a few years *LOL*
Again, Alcohol is not immoral by it nature, pornography is. Alcohol can be drunk in moderation, can the same be said of pornography?
Actually having babies makes them BIGGER, which the guys like. Don't worry about it. In a good loving relationship if you both can stay on < side of obease, when you are older it won't matter that you don't look the same as you did 30 years ago. Just remember HE doesn't look the same either. Just get him a viagra now and then for the hell of it, just to spice it up once in a while, and beleive me you are going to look like a sex kitten to him, Major *LOL*
Gee, there's a surprise.
If you'd like to educate yourself instead of embarrass yourself you might peruse the Meese report on this subject. It's only been out there for about 20 years.
Absolutely. I've looked at pornography with any interest less than a dozen times in the last 15 years. How much more moderation can there be than that?
You wrote: Again, Alcohol is not immoral by it nature, pornography is. Alcohol can be drunk in moderation, can the same be said of pornography?
My Reply: Porn in moderation? Hmmmmm well waht about reading a Penthouse or a Playboy, kind of soft porn, wouldn't that be porn in moderation?
Yeah but what about the stretchmarks? I worked in a shopping mall for years before excaping that hell. It was a real lesson in social psychology. I'd see a lot of men walking with their wives who are either pregnany or just had a baby, and they're LOOKING at other women.
Ah, but that's the real rub, some women really do look like that. Strip clubs are filled with women who really do look like that.
Oh come one, even most honest anti-porn crudsaders admit that the Meese Piece was pure propaganda. It was very much driven by the then emerging Jerry Falwel and the Moral Majority, and very little real research.
After ten years, what do they look like? They're not going to look like that forever. Men who like that sort of thing don't realize that. They try to say it's fantasy and other rationalizations but it's all BS.
Oh without a doubt. 30 is over the hill for a stripper. A regular grandma.
My husband always looks at pretty girls. It has never bothered me. Even I look at them, I admire beauty. What he has not done is look at them, well in a "lusting" kind of way. I nevr had stretch marks so I am not able to comment on them.
XR7 wrote:
"Are you are using a straw-man argument because you don't want to face the demon inside?
When a grown man's wife is longing for intimacy but he can't get it up for anyone but his five-fingered-mary, he's a perv - admit it. And that's where addiction to porn takes you, ultimately"
And you know this how? Since you're so righteous, I can assume you have no experience with where addiction to porn leads.
If you've performed an exhaustive study entailing years of "hands on" experience, then perhaps I'd believe your words.
I had a friend who did escorting. She's young and gorgeous. Most all of her clients are men who are married with children. Why is that? Why are a lot of these guys into strippers married with kids?
Well...I do think when a man with his lady he should keep his eyes off other women (especially when she's pushing a baby carriage!).
You wrote: After ten years, what do they look like? They're not going to look like that forever. Men who like that sort of thing don't realize that. They try to say it's fantasy and other rationalizations but it's all BS.
My Reply: I don't think men care about 10 years from now. They like what they like in the "present" time. Sex is a head (no pun intended) game it is NOT really that much about your body shape. I mean some of it is, as long as you are at least average pretty and body. Don't underestimate men's desire of fantasy!!!!!!!!! The key is to keep the fantasy alive in YOUR relationship, A little fantasy is a GOOD thing, beleive me along about year 7 & 8 ti will sound better and better tyo YOU, not jsut to him.
Men like fantasy, and I don't really think there is anything wrong with that.
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