It's still too early in the day for me to think about the issue of women in general (I need more coffee!), but I agree this woman really did many people wrong.
The way I was raised, you don't pull a stunt like this because, among other reasons, you should be thankful this is not happening to your family for real!
She is an absolute victim of a court-system gone insane. Her life has been destroyed by a male-dominated government that systematically rapes women psychologically. She will be victimized yet again because the GROOM cannot understand his RESPONSIBILITY in all this. The problem starts and ends with him, and with men in general.