Whether it was her that wanted the extravaganza or not, canceling something like that is scary for a woman. She had cold feet not over the wedding but over the groom. Laying the total blame for this on her is ridiculous. She finally made a good decision not to go through the wedding, because of who she was supposed to marry, not because of the gigantic proportions of the wedding itself which only lasts a day. You are stuck with who you marry a lot longer, LOL Good decision, bad execution of the decision. She was under a lot of pressure to be the bride today, that much is certain. The church is a media circus now with satellite trucks all over the parking lot, I just drove by it today.