You need to get expert help; given what you've just written to me. You sound terribly overwhelmed. I do commisserate; but I object to your personal hyperbole. You are trying to do a "guilting" thing upon any who disagree with your perspective. That's a rude tactic, did you know this? Your life is a bit out of control, you are demanding that others SHUT UP about their own opinions. This says.. you are feeling out of control. You are spewing fury all over the map.
La Leche League has been very helpful; but I don't buy into the "nursing as a natural public position" part of the gambit. I guess you don't either.
Let's see.. you post an opinion publically, and you call me a "busybody" for posting mine in response?
It isn't me who is having the problem, dear mother. Dr. Dobson gives very good counsel. I like his material.
If you are truly being discreet in public while nursing, I don't understand why it hits a nerve with you when others disagree. If you are discreet, who knows it then? NO ONE.
I'm disappointed to learn that you cannot discover ways by which to have more privacy in your life to nurse. This tells me how stressed you are. Or, perhaps, not wishing to give up parts of your own schedule in order to make room for "truly discreet" nursing. I think it is the former: You sound stressed. And I bet you are a good, loving mother. Be gentle with yourself too, dear mother.