She's jealous because she wasn't the one doing the hair for the wedding. All those bridesmaids and family - a fortune in hair appointments. And most weddings, at least down here, all the bridesmaids and the bride go together. It's a morning treat - the bridal luncheon the day before. And all the bridesmaids have their hair done the same way. I have a Bride right now who's paying almost $3500 for a morning of beauty (hair, nails, facials, massage and brunch) for her bridesmaids and there are just 6 of them.
Why must brides and their attendants look like other than what they are? I'm not saying they shouldn't have their hair and makeup done but often you would not recognize them on an ordinary day.
When my daughter and daughter-in-laws were married they all looked like themselves and they were spectacular brides. No upswept dos and curlie q's, just lovely, natural hairdos and makeup.