This may be a life-changer for me. I think I am about to have one of those looking-at-your-whole-life moments re: our son. It doesn't change what happened or even what I plan to do for him, but it's like climbing onto a higher hill and seeing how far you've really come now. I don't know why that should be the case -- I've really known there was a genetic connection for us and that that does not, in itself, constitute autism without the damaging effect of a labor hurt by Pitocin -- but I feel a little light in the head at the moment -- kind of like clearly seeing the hand of God in it all when you always sensed and hoped it was there.
Perhaps I would have gotten to interposing those two things in a search engine eventually -- probably -- but I've been so overwhelmed with other responsibilities for the last three years that it hadn't happened yet. This is a tremendous gift; thank you.
Glad to be of help. The Internet is awesome.