Agreed.
I have seen these so-called Catholics my entire 43 years of life. They are a miserable lot, generally. Angy, bitter, and prideful -- they would not conform to the will of Christ himself if it required a change in lifestyle -- Think "rich young man parable."
In any event, as much as it will pain me, I will pray for reformjoy -- that he/she becomes a little more open to the teachings of the Church.