Whould not, "thou shall not lie with thy neigbors wife apply equally to the female reader? The places where man in general are used, or "you"?
Thou means you the reader. So how could a woman reader have a lesbian relationship? Is the daughter of the neighbor not forbidden to lie with out of wedlock?
Lying with one's "neighbor's wife" would be adultery - this is specifically prohibited to both genders. However, there is no way to read the instructions in Leviticus 18 as being anything other than instructions to men specifically, as it is mostly a list of women whom a man is not to take. As this and repetitions thereof are the core of OT sexual morality, it seems perfectly clear to me that it is concerned almost entirely with restraining male sexual activity. A simple understanding of the nature of male sexuality can tell us why this is - because it is the male alone whose natural sexual instincts bid him to be a predator, and thus the male sexuality alone is important to address with these instructions.