i am catholic and i totally agree with you. they had a woman theology professor on Fox and Friends yesterday AM that made some of the same points you did and made them eloquently. i wish i could recall her name. i thought she gve a great response as to why women should not be ordained as priests, the primary one being that the priesthood is sacramental and instituted by Jesus and he did not include women.
Her name is Dr. Janet E. Smith, and she's great! I'm so happy she's teaching at a seminary!
Was it Janet Smith?