It's pretty sickening.
It seems as if you HAVE a will, death is chosen, and your wishes in the will don't count, and if you DO NOT have a will, death is chosen.
They always choose death.
I'm hearing more and more stories about hospices throughout the country, I would definitely not want to go to one - ever.
I'm not donating to hospice anymore either. In leau of flowers, I have donated, but no more.
I just send a peace lily and card to friends homes now.