Thanks for your post, that was very touching. I was going to say "I'm very sorry" regarding your whole situation, but I realized you seem like a very strong person who doesn't feel sorry for himself, and I commend you for your strength and perseverence. I am only 19 years old, so I have not had such tragedies happen to me, but if they do, I hope I handle them the way you have.
And I hope everything goes well when your wife returns. Godspeed.
Much thanks.