[beyond the sea]

I'd rather they sit down, shut up, and grieve together in private... then talk to the media in a few days...

I'd rather they sit down, be silent, and grieve together in private... then talk to the media in a few days...

Would be perhaps better to say, Chad.

[Chad Fairbanks]

Probably. But, why beat around the bush? I never claimed to be perfect :)