"Actually, I think the definition of husband is still based on the Bible. When a woman marris a man she joins his family..."
YOU THINK???? That husband is to treat his wife as Christ treated the Church and Christ died for the church (the body).
I think it best you not try and use the Bible as your backup.
Things sure do get twisted around when some try and use the Bible to fit their own desires.
I was just giving you what my definition of husband is supposed to be, with regards to a woman joining her husbands' family... No need to attack me for what is a basic core of my belief with regards to marriage...
However, that wasn't the main point of my post - you skipped over the main part of my post, for some reason and zeroed in on the less pertinant part - why?