Your words were filled with hope and are greatly appreciated. For whatever reason, God has chosen to allow what appears to be a victory for the devil. But He sees the greater picture from above, and if He has allowed these events to play out, I am confident that it is for our good and for His greater glory. Terri's life has had tremendous meaning---meaning of eternal significance. We can all strive to leave the kind of lasting legacy that her life has given us. Our job is to trust and obey the Lord God Almighty. We cannot do that with anger, bitterness, and resentment in our hearts. I am angry, bitter, and resentful right now and it is Easter Sunday. My heart should be full of joy and gladness because of what Jesus' death and resurrection have won us. I confess that I will need His assistance in getting beyond this. Only God can help us turn the corner and be a part of the good that will eventually come out of this tragedy.
Maybe this was God's way of opening our eyes too.