To come to a thread that allows for discussion and prayer can both be accomplished. All involved deserve, demand our respect and prayers.
I believe the parents are motivated by love of their daughter and her husband (excluding current stuff) is also doing what she had expressed to him.
This has deeply divided many and we need a thread for thoughtful prayer, discussion and reflection.
When certain people come in like a gang of thugs and post only as an effort of dissension and diversion then it it crap. What they do is not thoughtful quiet discussion, it is bullying and harrassment.. I think neither tactic deserves respect..
"Honey, if you ever strangle me and I don't die, take it to court and get lots of money by promising to take care of me for 40 or 50 years. Then, shortly after you get the money, suddenly remember that I am not a Catholic and that suicide is the way I wish to go. You know, starve/dehydrate me to death at my instruction. Don't worry, no one would believe you were murdering me so that your concubine could have a Catholic wedding."
Is that what you mean FMC?
Amen, Amen. Amen