[Hildy]

Nobody will do that to me, because I've made sure it will never get to that point. As a woman, I would never, ever want the people I love to sacrifice their lives to keep me in the State Terri is in. I love my family too much. IN MY OPINION, that is not a life. AGAIN, that is my opinion.

Now, I'm middle-aged. My husband is 66, it's a different story. Would I ever expect a 24 year old man to give up his life to sit by my bedside wiping the drool off my face and wiping my ass? The answer is no. If I loved him, I'd want him to lead a wonderful life. If I were the kind of woman who would want that, I wouldn't deserve a man like him.

[out_of_control]

Sorry... I guess I have always misunderstood love. I thought love is sacrifice. Hildy, may God bless you. I'm through with this discussion.

[the Deejay]

Now, I'm middle-aged.

So am I.

My hubby just turned 67.

We've been married 45 yrs.

Neither of us would want or expect the other to, wipe each others drool or rear ends.