I'm sorry you feel so put upon by other freepers (who said things I haven't said or thought about you), but I was responding to your actual words...........and they sounded extremely callous.
So, would you answer the question..........why did you say, "Why didn't she say something sooner?"
It was one of the facts of the matter I was educating myself on. I thought that perhaps the parents had occasional visits recently as a few months or year or two ago?
Please be assured I wasn't trying to accuse you of name calling or insulting my character. Common sense dictates that one will never persuade someone to their side if they tell that person off.