[Xenalyte]

So if a young woman - and Terri was quite young when they married - picks the wrong mate (as does happen, you know), that wrong mate gets to make the decisions?

If I had actually married my first fiance, I have no doubt we'd have loads of kids and long rap sheets by now. At 19, I was absolutely no judge of character.

It would really suck if I'd married him and then "collapsed mysteriously" after talking about divorcing him, because then he'd get to make decisions like this one.

But everyone knows how much Michael loves Terri. So much, he's screwing another woman.

[atruelady]

No wife in this entire country (unless she was a bleeding heart liberal POS who says one should do whatever they want, blah, blah, blah) would EVER allow their husband to call the shots whether she lived or died if they knew he had another woman for years and children too.

I should have also said that no man would want his wife saying if he lives or dies while tramping around.