Well said. It's a hard road to get to confession for an abortion, but the process is important. Take the initiative, accept responsibility, atone and discuss. Although I guess you're still "evil slime" to some!
Indeed, I wish people would recognize that churches should welcome repentent sinners. Unfortunately, all too often the 'right-wing' churches chase sinners into the clutches of liberal guilt-mongers rather than drawing them in through repentance.