Bingo again. I guess I stopped being interested when my looking into it got me to the point where it looked OK. Funny, that might have been part of it. The other was that there is something deadening about having so many relatives in common. At least it was to me.
yep, if no tragic component is involved, cousins lose their sex appeal and become just cousins which is an incredible bond. My kids meet cousins they have never known and there is an instantaneous bond,,I do believe it is chemical.