Growing up, I knew a boy whose parents desperetly wanted a girl and they got a boy. The mom couldn't have any more kids. He was the most girly boy in the world and the only boy in dance class. His parents totally screwed him up.
There's a Chicago Hope ep about a boy raised as a girl, based on a true story about a boy from Winnipeg, Canada.
"Boys Will Be Girls"
First broadcast on CBS, Feb. 3, 2000
John Heath directed, script by Linda McGibney.
Dr. Jack McNeil (Mark Harmon) is surprised to discover that his teenage "female" patient had been born a boy. At birth, a doctor performing a routine circumcision made an error [cutting off the boy's penis] and advised the parents to let the child live life as a girl. Dr. McNeil, Dr. Jeremy Hanlon (Lauren Holly) and Stuart Brickman (Alan Rosenberg) team up and go to court to help the boy win his right to restorative surgery.