You've been rude and unduly proprietary (um, maybe Jim Robinson needs to send you a private email informing you that it's not your site, and not your call who's got a "bad attitude" or who's allowed to post on what thread, etc.), but you are fractionally redeemed for publicly stating that you didn't see the movie. Re your extubation inquiry: She asks to "just unplug her," and he says No. So does staff. Once he finally gives her an injection (and much time and wrestling with moral issues goes by), he does extubate her.
Yeah, and I posted a reply addressing that issue to him, and you.
What is really important is that you both seemed to relax and were actually communicating.
I am sure he realizes, in retrospect, he was upset, and you had your remarks as well. We all get involved in these situations where a raw nerve, as misunderstood reply, etc. cause a flurry of negative exchanges. Cause we're human.
Forgive and what seems an enemy might turn out to be a good friend.