Please point out to me where I blamed the mother?
"But really, my patience for women sacrificing their children for loser men is passed the breaking pointthe breaking point"
"I am saying that her judgement might have contributed to her death, her son, and her unborn baby."
"So the mother played no role in getting hooked up with this loser?"
"Okay, let us not hold this mother accountable. Can we hold the next 10 who do the same thing, ie..get hooked up with a loser and then she and her children end up dead. At what point do we start telling women to pick better men?"
"So her judgement played no role in this whatsoever? Is that what you are saying?"
Here are a few of the places where one might think you were saying the victim was at fault. I don't know what you meant in your heart and I will assume you meant well, but your posts sure give the impression you are pointing fingers at the victim instead of the murder.