Isn't there an Oprah! episode you can go watch? A stable home doesn't include getting knocked up by scumbags.
Nobody is saying she deserved to be killed. What people are saying is that her situation ought to serve as a warning to women. Women are murdered and abused far more often by boyfriends than husbands. In fact, married women are far safer than cohabiting or single women.
But time after time I have seen women hook up with known scumbags with a violent past.
I don't need Oprah. I'm from a divorced home. Didn't see my father for nearly 17 years. My mother provided a stable, loving environment and never received a dime of child support. Of course in today's society, with the "no responsiblility generation", she and I would probably end up dead in a ditch. And you guys would be finding fault with her!
You go watch Oprah. Maybe you could learn a thing or two.