This woman is a professional victim. One of my wifes real estate clients was like this. She was in her early forties and when my wife showed her homes, she practically had to help her out of the car. All she did was complain about all the bad things in her life. When she finally found a condo, within two months she was suing everyone who touched the deal and the condo because it had a "mold problem." Never mind that nobody had complained before.
It was doubly irritating because my wife and I were both 50 and had to help a "young spry" around like an old lady. My wife learned to avoid potential clients with the "woe is me" attitude. They are dangerous, as was this "old" woman.
At least in this case the chickens are coming home to roost. Of course, ultimately, that is ALWAYS what happens.