If I read you correctly, embarrassing ones' father entitles him to throw you out of his home, cut off college funding (remember she could have applied for a scholarship had she known in advance) and break off communication.
I call it overkill.
This sentence leads me to believe you didn't read me at all, let alone correctly.
I'm saying her actions were the domestic equivalent of Jane Fonda's trip to Hanoi. All the sound and fury over her sexual proclivities is an attempt to employ the "McGreeney defense," against the sanctions she's suffered for it. Though reflexively, said proclivities are sufficient to warrent the same reaction.
One is left with a simple choice. You can believe Keyes is a blatant hypocrite, or that his daughter is being somewhat disingenuous. I choose to give benefit of the doubt to the party that doesn't celebrate sodomy.