[Goodgirlinred]

I would think that it would be very difficult to come to terms with, but one loves ones children no matter what. After all, God loves us unconditionally. Can we do no less?

[JCEccles]

Does God coddle, pamper, and enable you when you make a stupid decision?

We do not "love unconditionally" by encouraging or enabling the loved one to make foolish, destructive decisions.