Borderline personality disorder.
One reason one should use courtship and know the person you are dating.
"One reason one should use courtship and know the person you are dating."
Yet do you really know the person? I thought I did. She freaked when she did an internet search on my name, one of the hits was a person with a similar name, save for the middle name:
Prominent member of Aryan Nation.
Bomb builder.
Child molester/child pornographer.
Ties to Timothy McVeigh.
(and the person with the above attributes is doing hard time in a federal prison).
In her mind, I was him, despite any facts.
4 gallons of water in the gas tank of my truck.
Calls to my employer.
Major gossiping.
Lawyers.
I have avoided dating for 7 years because of that incident.