The proper course to take is to abhor the sin and love the sinner. It is the way I was taught and the way I've taught.
Sadly, there are those who would rather crush the vessel instead of replacing the wine.
It is simply the way the Christians are commanded to live, Thumper. To be different would then be buying into the moral relativism that has infected our society. The Standard by which I live does not change, regardless of how "man's" standards are constantly in flux.