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To: Question_Assumptions

"Uh, I'm happy that my father spanked me."

My father spanked me, too, and I was in no way harmed by that. He did not, however, use a whip on me. This is about "The Rod," not spanking.


109 posted on 01/10/2005 1:59:39 PM PST by MineralMan (godless atheist)
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To: MineralMan

No, this is about spanking, too. The author of this article is talking about "the Rod" but also about spanking.


111 posted on 01/10/2005 2:04:50 PM PST by FreedomHasACost
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And there are plenty of other people on this thread talking about being hit by switches that feel pretty much the same way -- they were happy their parents did it. And at least one reply mentioned testing it to see how much it hurt and said that it primarily stings. So my point still remains concerning "do unto others". A lot of people here are doing unto their children as was done to them and they appreciate what was done to them.

Would I use something like this device? Probably not. And it probably does cross my personal line of what's appropriate. But I also think it's incredibly dangerous to mandate what the exact line should be, so long as a parent isn't clearly abusing their child. It foolish to try to set a "one size fits all" policy toward raising children because discipling a child is a lot like the old George Carlin routine about driving (anyone who drives faster than you is a maniac and anyone who drives slower than you is a moron). Anyone who disciplines a child more than you would will seem like the are abusing their child and anyone who disciplines their child less than you would will seem like they are being too soft. That's why I think we need to leave this up to individual parents.

Does this device go further than I would? Yes. Can I see good parents using something like this and raising good kids? Yes. Just because it might be abused it no reason to ban it. Apply your own gun control analogy as necessary.

115 posted on 01/10/2005 2:17:04 PM PST by Question_Assumptions
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