Okay, well you've all convinced me. I'm going to quit using the marketable skills that God gave me and not work anymore. And I'm going to ignore the fact that I don't want kids, and that my husband doesn't want kids, and just have them anyway. Then I'll be doing my duty to society. I won't be annoying anyone with my career goals. I can then be as self-righteous as all of you parents. I'm sure God will like me better, too.
(I'm not usually so sarcastic, but you people have driven me to the brink!)
Ignore the self-righteous crowd. Most of them can't see beyond their limited world-view. It's your life and you don't have to justify to anyone how you choose to live it.